Just how to determine if you are a ‘conversational narcissist’

Just how to determine if you are a ‘conversational narcissist’

We want to mention ourselves. It’s what journalist and writer Celeste Headlee calls “conversational narcissism.” Not only will it destroy conversations, she warns, it may destroy relationships.

“Talking about ourselves is quite pleasurable and narcissism that is conversational exactly what outcomes,” Headlee informs NBC News BETTER. “It’s this tendency to show conversations right back towards ourselves and things that we’re interested in …sometimes consciously, but also subconsciously.”

The “We have to Talk” writer learned all about conversational narcissism — a term initially created by sociologist Charles Derber — the hard means. She when attempted to comfort a close friend whoever dad had died, she recalled, by speaing frankly about the increased loss of her very own dad.

“I’m sure the manner in which you feel,” Headlee informed her buddy.

Furious at Headlee to make the discussion about by herself, her friend stormed away. Continue reading Just how to determine if you are a ‘conversational narcissist’